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The Ultimate Guide to Hand Jobs

Another great stroke to try requires two hands and also takes advantage of a twisting motion. For this one, you'll make both hands into tubes. One goes around the base of his penis and the other goes around the shaft just above it. If he has a shorter penis and you can't fit both hands around the length of it, you can make an "okay" sign with the index finger and thumb of your bottom hand, and let your other fingers rest on his pubic bone. Now, twist your hands in opposite directions around his penis, again with that opening-a-jar motion, while your hands move up his shaft. Your top hand will end up wrapping and twisting around the head of his penis, while your bottom hand will be just below it on his shaft. Twist your hands back to their original positions down the shaft, and repeat.

If your hands get tired with the techniques above, try switching to a simpler ring technique to give yourself a break. To do this, form just the index finger and thumb of your hand into a ring. Slide the ring over the top of his penis and down, paying special attention to where it pops over the ridge. This move will feel like intercourse to him, specifically that heavenly moment when he first penetrates. Slide the ring back up and over to repeat, or use two hands to create a sort of "endless vagina": as one hand slides toward the base, make a ring with your other hand and slide that over his penis while you return the first hand to the top.

Orgasms and Afterglow

At this point, you'll probably be noticing his hips grinding, his breathing quickening, and maybe even some moans of pleasure. As men approach orgasm, they typically like an increase in pressure and speed. If you're using a technique that seems to be working, try speeding it up to keep up with his rhythm. You may have to simplify your movements if he's going hard and fast, but try not to change it up too much or you may lose your stroke on the hot spots that got him there in the first place.

You might want to move on to other things before he orgasms, but if he does want to come from your manual skills it's a nice touch to put some thought into where to direct his ejaculation. Many men love to come on their partner's breasts or stomach. You'll want to keep his semen away from your mouth, vagina, and other mucous membranes if you have any concerns about STDs, but other than that, try getting a little creative.

Cleanup time is another opportunity to show class and creativity. Instead of tossing him a tissue, try having unscented baby wipes handy (or try wipes made especially for the bedroom), or bring him a washcloth moistened with some warm water to wipe off. Nothing kills the afterglow like bits of tissue stuck to his skin, and your preparation and thoughtfulness will be apparent.

Once you've mastered the art of the hand job, you'll find all sorts of occasions to whip out your skills. The man—or men—you try this on will probably be very pleasantly surprised at your dexterity, and you'll find you have a newfound aura of confidence in your ability to make him quiver. Know that you possess skills that few women ever bother to master, and use that knowledge well!

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