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The Ultimate Guide to Hand Jobs

Many men use regular hand lotion to masturbate; this can be a good choice for you too, provided you use an unscented product to avoid irritation and don't plan on using a condom later on (lotions contain oils which will break down a condom in a matter of seconds). If you do need a condom-friendly product or just want to get a bit more fancy, you can select from the huge variety of commercial lubricants availabe at your neighborhood drugstore or at a specialty sex shop. Be sure to choose a water-based or silicone-based lube, not an oil-based one, if you plan on using a condom after your hand job. A special touch is to choose a lube that comes in a pump bottle; these allow you to get a quick one-handed squirt without breaking up the flow of the action.

3. Get in position. Many women prefer to kneel between his legs; this allows for the greatest range of motion and also lets him watch if he props himself up with a pillow. Of course, if you're not in bed, you may have to assume whatever position you can, but if you've got your choice of arrangements this positioning will likely be most comfortable for you both.

Technique

The first thing to remember when giving a hand job is that men generally prefer stronger stimulation than women do. What feels great to you might feel like just a tickle to him. As a general rule, you're going to need more pressure than you would expect. If you're not sure how much pressure to use, get a tube of refrigerated cookie dough from the grocery store. The correct amount of pressure will leave a slight indentation in the tube. If you're denting it, you're pressing too hard.

To get started, you'll want to give him some nice warm-up strokes. Get some saliva or lubricant on your hands, and warm the lubricant by rubbing your hands together if necessary. Place a hand around his penis, with your thumb and fingers forming a tube around his shaft. Starting at the base, stroke all the way to the top of the shaft. When your hand reaches the top of the shaft, open your hand and stroke with your fingers back down the underside of his penis. When you reach the base, make your hand into a tube again and stroke back up. This is a perfect starting point if he is not quite hard yet, since you are focusing on long strokes away from his body.

As he begins to get harder and you're ready to move on, switch to a stroke that provides more stimulation of his hot spots. The first stroke to try gives lots of stimulation to the ridge along the bottom of the head. For this stroke, you're going to make another tube with your hand and place it around his penis with your thumb and forefinger on the bottom. The back of your hand should be facing you. Then, stroke upward. When your hand reaches the ridge along the head of his penis, twist your hand away from you, swirling it around the ridge as if you're opening a jar. This gives him a long stroke along that sensitive coronal ridge. When you've twisted your hand as far as you can, swivel your hand up and over the top of his penis and bring it back down the other side. You can do this stroke with one hand, or you can coordinate with two hands. Two hands takes a bit more practice but allows you to keep the stimulation more constant.

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